100 days. 1,000,000 dead. It’s been only 21 years since one
of the bloodiest events in human history. The Rwandan genocide began swiftly,
and in three months, an estimated one million Rwandans were dead.
Rwanda’s ethnic tensions had been high between the Hutu and
minority Tutsi communities for decades. Conflict came to a head on the evening
of April 6, 1994, when Hutu President Juvenal Habyarimana’s plane was shot down and he was killed.
While those responsible for the president’s assassination remain unidentified,
the extremist Hutus blamed the Tutsi people and the genocide began that night.
Radical Hutus targeted the Tutsis and moderate Hutus.
Neighbors killed neighbors, friends killed friends, and husbands killed wives.
Citizens reported that the Hutu-run government threatened to kill its own Hutu
people if they did not kill the Tutsi themselves.
Charity Mutesi |
Rwandan Charity Mutesi was two years old at the time of the
genocide, but it still affects her and millions of others two decades later.
She is frank in describing her fellow Rwandans.
“People are still broken.”
Soon after the genocide began, Mutesi, along with her
parents and siblings, were among those fortunate enough to escape to nearby
Uganda.
“We only know that my uncle died fighting. We don’t know
where or even if he’s buried. I wish I’d met him.”
Mutesi and her family returned to Rwanda once it was safe.
Two decades later, she is now a business student at LeTourneau University, but
more than that, she is an advocate for her country that is now home to an
overwhelming population of orphans and widows of the genocide.
“I have grown up in a country with broken people. There are
very, very many orphans and widows. It breaks me seeing people being hopeless,”
she said.
And it does break her – there is a distinct urgency in her
voice as she explains the plight of the Rwandan people, especially women. Most
are unable to find employment and are left destitute.
“To me, I see women being unable to work as being the main
reason there’s a lot of poverty. If a woman can work, there can be a lot of
change,” she said.
According to Mutesi, many African women have only one option
for survival: to get married.
“That’s not what I want for women. I don’t want them to look
to a man and say ‘I want a man to be my everything.’ I want husbands and wives
to love each other but I also want women to be independent on their own.”
Mutesi took that desire to Senegal, where she interned with
the United Nations in December 2014-January 2015. When she was initially told
she would be filing and making coffee, she approached her supervisor with a
petition to do more extensive work. Her request was granted, and she approached
her time there with the goal of furthering independence of women.
During her internship, she traveled to villages to research
women’s need for work and met with banks and beneficiaries to study how
microfinance institutions could help African women be gainfully employed. At
the end of her time there, she presented her findings to the UN.
Her internship was not the beginning of her work to aid
victims of the genocide. She spent her youth working with Never Again, a human rights organization born out of response to
the genocide that aims to build peace in Rwanda through its citizens. Mutesi
was president of the chapter at her school, where she worked to educate young
Rwandans about the genocide.
“Our main idea at Never
Again was to keep young people from growing up with an ideology of hate.
Some youth have too much hate in them; they are broken. We were being an impact
on them.”
With Never Again,
she also took part in fundraisers for orphanages and spent time with children
who were left orphans from the genocide. She recalls one particular girl with
fondness: “When we used to go to the orphanage, I would feel like I wasn’t
doing enough, so I ‘adopted’ one girl. I worry for her like I’m her mother. I
hope to go home soon and see all the girls again.”
Nor was her time at the UN the end of Mutesi’s work for the
healing of Rwanda. She is resolute in her plan to use her business degree from
LETU to start an organization that will empower women to be independent and
propel them out of poverty.
Remembering genocide victims at the Walk to Remember
service
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Her Excellency Prof. Mathilde Mukantabana |
and featured Ambassador of the Republic of Rwanda to the U.S., Mathilde Mukantabana, as a speaker.
Rwanda has, for more than 20 years, been a place of suffering,
devastated from the genocide for the majority of Mutesi’s existence. Her desire
to dedicate her life to help rebuild her home is palpable. When she speaks of
Rwanda, it’s indisputable she feels the pain of the genocide victims, but her
voice is also full of hope for a restored future. She is that future.