Cheryle Barnes was happy and healthy – until Valentine’s Day
2011, when she discovered she had breast cancer.
“You never want that diagnosis, and when you get it, you’re
in shock,” Barnes said.
As we come to the close of Breast Cancer Awareness Month,
it's important to be reminded of the impact of this disease. As of 2013, there
were 2.8 million women in the U.S. with a history of breast cancer. Nearly
everyone is affected – either directly or through a family member or friend.
While many patients make a full recovery, tens of thousands do not.
Thankfully, Barnes is cancer-free today, but it is the
gracious manner in which she speaks of her cancer experience that is just as
inspiring. She expresses more gratitude of support than fear of the disease.
A long-time staff member of LeTourneau University Student
Accounts, Barnes recalls her reaction when she was first diagnosed: “The amount of cards and letters I got was overwhelming. I had people who I didn’t even know
knew me come up to say they were praying for me.”
Barnes said, even on her worst days, her faith and the
support of her family and LeTourneau coworkers helped her through the toughest hours:
“There were times when I didn’t want to see anyone, but I still knew people
were praying. It’s what got my husband and me through this. That’s the thing
about LeTourneau – you have that support in prayer.”
A particular impact for Barnes was colleagues who had been
through the same experience. She spoke of one coworker who accompanied her to
her first chemotherapy appointment, took notes of pertinent information and all
the doctor’s and nurse’s names. Barnes said she didn’t have the wherewithal at
the time to think of those details at the time. She also said her family received many
visitors and meals from her LeTourneau family.
When asked what advice she would give to other survivors or
those close to patients, Barnes stressed the importance of yearly mammograms
and informing doctors of cancer in family history.
Barnes was also emphatic about the need for close support
for patients: “It’s not contagious, and it’s not an alone disease. You need
people to surround you.”
Most encouraging is Barnes’ unflinching faith.
“I always felt like God led me to LeTourneau for a reason,
and I think that may be why – to have that support system. I believe God had a
purpose for it.”
If you would like to
join the fight to find a cure of breast cancer, check out the following
resources: www.cancer.org, www.relayforlife.org, ww5.komen.org, or www.armyofwomen.org.
Everybody can actually relate to Barne. It’s quite easy to review statistics and facts regarding the topic, but when it finally hits you, it may seem like it’s the end of the world. Spreading awareness doesn’t have to be all about the disease; rather, it can be on how you can stay your ground when you have to deal with it.
ReplyDeleteNorman Watkins @ Giving Works